Sunday, January 11, 2009

Stop Drinking Advice - On the road to recovery

By Ed Philips

Alcohol addiction is one of the most widespread and devastating diseases that claims many lives, and wrecks even more homes in its wake. What was one viewed as a mere lack of self control, is now recognized as one of the most severe of maladies, which affects millions of lives around the modern world. And yet, most people continue to shrug off spurts of uncontrollable drinking as "Just a passing phase", or worse, "Alcoholism is something that happens to others not me". It is this notion that many organizations and even governments are struggling to change, as it is this very mindset that precedes the downwards spiral into the murky depths of alcoholism.

A major factor that makes alcoholism such a difficult disorder to cure is that the victim of alcohol abuse does not understand the horrifying effects his consumption of alcohol warrants. The most widely accepted way to ascertain that you are not a victim yourself is to analyze your drinking habits. If you fall in the category of people who consume more than 4 drinks a day, or 14 drinks a week, then it is a sure sign that something is amiss. Also, if your resort to alcohol as a means to alleviating your depression, or drink more out of habit than as an occasional indulgence, you are already stepping across the fine line that separates moderation and addiction. This may be the best time to talk to your doctor about your habit, because you, as the victim, may not be the best judge of whether you are indeed going overboard. So, you may often find yourself making excuses to justify your drinking or even be defensive when you are spoken to about it.

Another prominent way to access whether you are indeed going overboard, is to gauge what the people closest to you are saying. If, for even an instant, you are struck by the possibility that there is some truth to their observations, don't dismiss the thought. Make that call to your doctor and set up your appointment without any further delay. The most important reason for you to give up on that bottle is 'you'. Think of all the physical ailments that alcohol abuse could cause you and those which already afflict you. From liver cirrhosis, to gastrointestinal disorders to even cardiovascular problems, alcohol literally wreaks havoc on your body. Also, if you are resorting to alcohol to alleviate your tensions, you may be surprised to know that alcohol, in itself is a depressant. The momentary high that you feel in followed by rapidly increasing bouts of depression, to the point that it becomes a vicious cycle where you have to drink to rid yourself of the depression that alcohol has brought on to you.

Look for reinforcement in all its forms once you have made the decision to quit. Make a list of all the reasons which prompted you to take the first step. From your physical health to your family ties, every reason is reason enough for you to quit. Tack this list to your refrigerator, your dresser, or any place where you can see it often. This will give you the much-needed motivation when you are feeling particularly low and egg you on stick to your resolve. At times like these, it also helps if you talk to friends and family and let them help you overcome any hurdles that impede your path to recovery. If you do recourse to alcohol to ease you through psychological trauma, seek the advice of a trained counselor to rid you of these problems. Group therapy sessions have also proven to be immensely beneficial as they allow victims to share their experiences and consult with others who have been through similar times.

Divide your process of recovery into milestones and reward yourself with every one that your achieve. Your rewards could be anything that means the most to you a quiet dinner or a movie with your family, or even buying yourself something you've always wanted. Your new way of life will invariably result in you saving on all the money that you formerly spent on alcohol. You can make use of this money as an enticement to stick to your resolution, until it blends into your daily routine. There are several other techniques you can use to alleviate your withdrawal symptoms like hypnosis or acupuncture or simply a relaxing massage.

The first month of your de-addiction program is bound to be the most difficult. However, once you've eased through that crucial phase, make it a point to redesign your social and personal interactions to avoid any circumstances which may prompt relapses. This could involve avoiding those weekend "Let's get sloshed" sessions with your colleagues from work, or even keeping away from all the people you associated with, during your addiction. Many of these associates may be in the denial phase themselves, and hence not recognize the need for you to take the drastic step to curtail your drinking habits at all. What's more, they may even try, in all innocence, to coerce you to break your program "Just once," assuring you that a single drink will not do you any harm. And before you know it, the one drink multiplies into two and then four and before you know it, you're back right where you began.

When it comes to making that decision to clean up your act and start afresh, you may feel overwhelmed with all the obstacles that crop up. However, don't let these barriers weaken your resolve. Stick to them with an iron will, and soon, you'll discover a whole new world of opportunities right at your doorstep! - 14915

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